The other two Libras were two different guys at my college who literally went 20 miles out of their way to pursue me (and later stalked) me after I rejected them, ended communications. After more than four decades, I have realized that II much more prefer the company and friendship of other fellow Librans. Then i feel bad afterwards and consume chocolates laced with other people's feelings. We'd take up for a stranger in a minute if their being treated unfairly no matter color, race, sex, or religion if its unfair it brings the rage out in us. Dark-side Librans ignore or hush up reports of pain or unpleasantness and fool themselves that things they don't acknowledge didn't happen. I completely agree with this. I'll counter her with a weapon she despises kicking and screaming back into her own pit of hell yes, I'll kill her with my own personal happiness! But this just my super bad experiences with them. When charged with bad behavior, they will say, Oh, Im such a bad person. However, the stuff you put into the Libras mind it stays there. Very well. on the rare times i could have a friend over she was sooo nice like she wanted them to like her. im living with a libra female and i am done with her trying to control my life.. wanting to have things go well with her guys. When I get angry I yell and scream but if it gets worst I start getting physical and it's scary. Wow, basically summed me all up. September 9, 2022 by Anna Howard. You will find that the following article will help you navigate your relationship when she is dealing with grief, doubt, or regret. I love her like a sister. Done. Lets not forget Vladimir putin ffs! I'm 28 years old , born on September 27 and I wish I can hear stories of girls who share the same birthday with me as I need some answers. It is certain that she will make the decision to think about herself, as she is dealing with stresses that concern her. Furthermore, Libra with Libra Mercury have Mercuries that are either in the morning phase, the evening phase, or combust. And wanted an apology. At my request of clarification he said "oh well he doesn't like certain things, like when I play a bit with him, he gets furious". Here's why. You should have gone to the shrink when he asked you to! The ones i know are just crazy,they put other's in danger with their pseudo judgements,cool you don't like drama,then think better if you don't like to see people suffer,no wonder aries is the opposite,you have to be ignorant and strong like an aries to let go so easy of so much bull a libra can ask for. When Libras get sad they feel like their heart is breaking. I let her Stew in her own poop made it worst. She is an extremely toxic person. Not even the same first letter. Have. If you are looking to learn about what happens when each zodiac sign is sad, then take this time to develop your capacity for empathy and compassion, as this will help you support the people who are in your life. Negative Librans are worrywarts and being or feeling alone is the most horrible thing they can imagine. My sister is cold, she does not care about people. I didn't realize it until reading some of the things and saw it was talking about me. I used to believe a long term childhood freind was my true freind. Nobody wants to read thru all that so i'll say what really matters and make it quick. 1.) The list below will give you insight into how a Libra woman may act when sad. In fact she spent a good time saying she expected to speak to my partner, but in a very roundabout way! This will help her reach a state of mind that is more stable and tranquil. Very childlike. One Libran is not going to be the same as the other. When these emotions take over, be aware of a Virgo that becomes blunt and oppositional. Dated a Libra over a year. I much rather have Libra friends, lovers, co-workers, or acquaintances than any other sign. When this occurs, she may choose to turn her attention elsewhere. and YES guess sometimes I lose hope. They see everyone as mindless and feel called to enlighten them. Whoever wrote thiswrote it in a condescending way towards libraswhat is there zodiac? When I started to find my feet and grow back into my own skin and started embracing life (I started sewing classes and then attending Couture workshops) she didn't want to know. These people would never guess that Professor Libra was NOT at all on their side and was infact VERY jealous of them. The word baddie was created because of them. But when they do, I have this urge to feel responsible and take on the guilt and blame. Underneath her exterior, she may be suffering from crushing sadness. I immediately had her pegged as a boyfriend snatcher, took charge and used my partner's phone to phone her back (not knowing her star sign). I wont bite ur head off lol. 1) He acts shy when he is around you. Libras are also the kings and queens of compromise, and they like making peace between others. He's won competitions on creating video games at an early age. People try to tap into that vulnerability and "twist the knife" unless I hide it from them. Mother, father, uncle whatever..that's ridiculous. We will love to the ends of time and to our very detriment and will give chance after chance after chance to prove your self. I gave my virginity to him thinking that it would change things make him open up to me more; Like me more, try to get to know me more,but I was wrong. Some people agreeing with this in its whole has proven they know and strongly dislike a certain libra in their life, and have no reason to disagree because of the obvious pain THAT negative libra has caused. To pull you in, a libra will start to compliment or encourage you. He can't see or type his sister's name in his FB IM? Ive been with a Libra since aug 2018 and b4 that i was with a mental scorpio. I am a Libra, and I am artistic, love to play "wordsmith games", unfortunately my quirky sense of humor precludes anyone appreciating my "wit" most of the time. The one I know best is so selfish, vindictive that she doesn't care who's life she ruins while in the process of getting what she wants. Being an air sign and the only sign symbolized by an inanimate object, Libras lack genuineness and honesty as their opposite sign, Aries. She was having an affair with a much younger man who lavished gifts on her constantly, this we knew was true, she talked terribly about him behind his back, belittling berating and putting him down constantly, she would talk badly about other staff when she thought no one was around, if you caught her at it and called her out on her behaviour then you could count yourself the enemy. There's three types of Libra Suns: Libras who have Mercury in Virgo, Libras who have Mercury in Scorpio, and Libras who have Mercury in Libra. I think Libra's are not all heartless, but they tend to be very practical and don't marinate in their emotions a lot. It might take five years to get your own Libra male off your sofa. So you can imagine how short lived the relationships are. Reading all of these negative, hateful comments about Libras makes me wonder. Libra men are so controlling and a manipulative person Im a Scorpio so that didnt last long with me. But Libra guy 2 created these "conflict triangles" with other people. While we were dating i let her know about my one true longtime best friend which was my first ex (gemini)from high school yrs (different schools). If you cross my line you're already in the game of life or death for me. I guarantee there was as much yelling in his home as there is in every Libra home. He used to sexually abuse me, in a very sadistic way, sneaking into my bed when I was sleeping. I went along with it till one day I said something to him and he blew up saying Im criticizing him which left me in shock. I am a libra and this doesn't describe me. (3) I had the "right" appearance for him to be seen with. Libra who met the dark side on December 31, 2016: I'm a libra. With that infinite patience also come a storm brewing inside that once boils over will look something like the Dark Phoenix rising to burn the earth to nothing. Replytovengefulauthor on January 09, 2017: As someone that has done a lot of astrology reading I can admit I know some of these traits can be very true of a libra. I swear I'm making a note objective after years of analysis and hearing the testimonies of many people. Some of them will utter insults and call you all sorts of names under the sun if you upset their inner peace. I am no drama queen though. Just that we only show it in private place. I'll take it all. What The. I would also like to remind everyone that this isn't a "meltdown" I am having a reasonable opinion. Thank God doctors brought me back alive. She is the most flaky and fake person i know. If you showed fear or didnt talk back then she would consider you a friend. And while it would be nice to have this kind of mind-reader in our lives, we should always make sure we understand our own emotions before we get others involved. Or the inability to care about circumstances in our roomie situation that were distressing to me as I thought of her like a sister. I'm a virgo male and married a female libra. My mom is a libra and she is exactly like that. When it comes to you, on the other hand, he isn't reluctant to stand up for you. We are easily hurt and scarred. I was 9 y/o and he was 16. Libra's feel and intuit EVERYTHING.so the world can be vastly overwhelming for those Libra's that don't have an earth sign to anchor them in this world. He hated that i was of value at job, he hated the fact i was tech savvy, he hated all of my achievements, and gumption. Their lover. The cat she got for us 1month before she moved in liked me more than her so we got 1 more so they could play together that failed dead cat. I can't with him I just like his attractiveness. I told her he didn't think it wise to take "sides" and wanted to stay out of it. Eventually I got tired of playing cat and mouse with him and his uncertainty that I tried to call it quits. In person with me he followed me around my campus and was excessively "helpful". Sylvia Sky (author) from USA on October 08, 2016: Shewolf, it is painful for all when people don't understand us. What ever happened in her head destroyed her. Libra women have some beauty about them because they're not trying too hard and keeping things easy. Strong beautiful powerhouses just like Kim K, Cardi and Queen Halsey. The best I could figure is why Mr. Libra 2 was so eager to be with me is. I can't believe this is how I am? I have a Libra "friend" that I grew up with and I thought she was the nicest person but now I realize how untrue that is. At this time, she may begin to feel that she has been ignored by the people that she cares about most. But disagreements. Libra people are charming and very easy to attract you. But as anyone who has dated Libras will know, they can also be very jealous and possessive. we just want you to think you've won. We are the angel and the demon in one and we are enthralled with both sides equallythough we have a secret love and a secret draw towards the power of our darkness. The males appear to be charming, romantic and very friendly. I ended all contact. When Gemini gets depressed, their mind starts to wander and they over-think everything. 7.) Emotional balance is so important to a Libra. The signs a Libra man is trying to hide his feelings aren't always that obvious but you can't really ignore the fact that he constantly smiles and laughs around you and his eyes are always sparkling when he sees you. Having two Libra sisters and a Libra friend of five years I have seen this time and time again. Thank you. Such futile people - notice how they never get sympathy? You want to see fire, you'll get the air ripped from your sales! They're divorced now. Due to all that sugar and junk they regulary eat. Our home is where we are the most stubborn, the most controlling, unyielding, vengeful selves. Libra women, when sad or upset, often find that their behaviors betray their emotional turmoil. I was terrified. When I say Mr. Libra 2 was pursuing me, it was LOVEBOMBING!!! when i say spiritual abuse, she was always in to some different religion even witchcraft at one point. When in discussion about this libra others who think they know her well will defend her and say she is gracious and unselfish. Shes ugly on the inside and on the outside and she's vain for no reason. I learned to not tell secrets. Do Libras move on quickly? Librans are great at handling heartbreaks. This ability to read people allows them to avoid conflict by hiding their true feelings. If look from the good side we're doing you a favor before you meet our Lucifer side so you must be happy :). When the fact of the matter is, they no fodder to throw back. My children I mentioned earlier just so happen to be a gemini girl and a sagittarian boy. She talks shit about everyone and try to coaxes you into hating those people that she hates as well. How Can I Help a Depressed Capricorn Man? . She may make the decision that she needs to make changes in regard to her social relationships. They like being the one that isnt surprised almost always appearing calm and wise, as if they can see the future. Depends on the day of the month you were born. They can be extremely sensitive creatures at times and some things just affect them more than they would other signs. This just says a lot. It allows us to be thankful for happiness when it occurs but too much of it can be unhealthy. I think it's smart to learn astrology to choose the best time to give birth to a child and choose their planetary influences to prevent many obstacles :P. This is true. She is condescending, arrogant, extremely intrusive, uses my brother to find out what I am doing even though I am a mature woman. A Libra woman may decide that it is acceptable to simply ignore or dismiss topics that she doesn't want to speak about. Im dealing with a libra mom. The stereotype that portrays us like a sweet candy floss and charming lucky charms is so misleading. She finally left us alone and we did not see the kids until they became adults, many years later. Super selfish people who never know what they want and live in fear of being alone, that's why they are easy to jump in a new relationship super fast. It's extremely unfair to call Sylvia Browne a fake psychic. Undoubtedly, they are much easier than the older generation, succumb to feelings. Deciding to start a family is an exciting time. Virgo Man Not Texting Back: What Do I Do? Tell you sad stories, tell you that you knows them better than themselves, that you are their savior. Is your love language what you give or receive? That Libra/Leo thing was just ugly - self important, secretly power crazed, a seducer, and let's not forget, she's a Cusp of Virgo Libra. Like every other sign they have a bright side, but that's not the subject of this article. That is the only way you can truly be loyal. I'm a Libran and I all I care about is love . I wouldn't trade my beautuful Libra baddie for nothing. And I don't want to become a mother after all I read here , It's a big responsibility that I can't handle I'm very fragile and need someone to constantly take care of me. i am currently in no contact, but this time it is for good. With Libra, maintaining balance in their life is vital to their emotional wellbeing. They exhibit intense melancholy with paranoia, and their own thoughts become scary to them. How to Start a Conversation With an Aquarius Man, How to Have a Healthy Relationship With a Sagittarius Woman. You may want to look in the mirror first. RELATED: What Taurus Is Like In Relationships. I have negative experiences with them, well the females not the males. When im being nice to others i feel like bringing them up is what i should do but in reality i may not actually like them and i feel guilty. but went and scratched in my guys past and found out information to try and make me end things with him. im sorry manipulative, insecure to the point where they compete with their friends(trying to outshine me and gets moody cos it doesnt work), full of lies.. attention seeking. It sux to say but all these dark traits are traits I have observed in myself to some degree (some more than others) and I feel it growing. And I suspect that he would sexually rape his ex-wife little sister when she was about 10 y/o and I was about 14, but then I never had any proofs of it nor she ever said anything about it, like I myself never did say a word with fear, when I was being raped for all those nights. What makes worse about him is that he is double faced and people can only see his bright side, that he is helpful to people, he helps my sister financially, he cares about my parents and is looking after them. That libra bad moon came out PURE EVIL . BUT with my loved ones I AM WHO I AM. They will become silent and seem to be "elsewhere" instead of trying to deal with what's bothering them. My mother, grandmothers, two former female managers. She invited my best friend over to the house for a business presentation but did admit it was no good purpose. Everything in this article rings true. has no answer. Most people are made of many layers, and can exhibit any set of traits associated with a various signs at any given time. OK so now she knows many of my inner secrets and treating me like nothing really changed between us except less lovey dovey stuff. Virgo usually has a good head on their shoulders until they get upset. Obviously, we have our cons, on which I can speak myself. I want to know what's going wrong because I'm doing all the right things but all I'm getting is disappointment. Sylvia Sky (author) from USA on September 18, 2016: Chastity, this article is solely about Libra's dark side. She uses people and shes a know it all. Then he would get mad insanely mad when ignored. Munay, I am a Libra and I have to disagree on every aspects lol for me personally I do good until Im messed over as soon as you mess over me its over with. and finally: I ADMIT I'm not perfection BUT try hurt my friends? Hi everyone, I am a Libran that you guys are bad-mouthing/talking about. I made decision to stop communicating with her. I loved him at a distance because I was already attached and knew that being fully invested would break me even more. i ended up living a lot of my life with my grandmother because my mom would not stop physically abusing me. Scorpio Man Not Texting Back: What Do I Do? I can agree with some of the second parts of statements: e.g. We will have justice and we will exact the pain you have placed on us and we will make you feel everything you ever made us feel in one moment. Scorpios are all about ruining your life and possibly planning to kill by all means. A Libra woman thrives in entertainment, happiness, joy and elegance. I had a friend (we are both libras) she was a thieth she stole a couple of pens and a notebook in school and when i asked her why she did that she told me infrond of my face that ive stolen from her too (witch i did not) she said such big lies for her grades that i cant stand it any more . One older female Libra and two younger males Libras. If you piss off or let a Libran down, do not both trying to: because they know what you did and your ability to do it again. I looked each up, the decans explained it well. Things seem to be falling apart around me. If a libras dark side showing youve had to provoke them in some way. This article was accurate about "some" of my dark traits. I like to surround myself with positive happy people. I was married to a Leo before with Virgo tendencies and was totally miserable. We are intelligent, but we do need a lot of guidance. Pisces is the most sensitive sign in the zodiac. Ive tried to reach him but he wont answer. They can feel like they are no longer in control of their life, so they can start being more impulsive, blind with rage, and even fail to get worked up about their normal habits something that usually keeps them sane. So to say my ability to maintain connection is fucked is putting it mildly. Although, they feel pain and are disappointed at their situation, their charm and their ability to maintain a peace of mind gets them to move on and find someone who can heal their broken heart. They want tranquil homes decorated artistically. Libra men often have a hard time speaking their feelings, and they often bottle up their emotions. Librans might speak kindly in public, but even the best ones do not really believe others have feelings or brains. My strict advice as a Leo, NEVER EVER GO FOR A SCORPIO no matter if ur sign is a good match and if u do get along in the startU will just end up ruined or even dead. Throughout the years we dated other people but always kept in contact with each other. Aries (March 21 April 19) "While Aries can be charmed by Libra for a while, one thing Aries can't stand is neediness," Monahan says. I'm going to be very honest, I was pretty ruthless with my ex wife, especially in the latter part of our marriage. This is spot on. hi, i would like to know which one is more accurate sun sign or moon sign. We libras are very difficult people for families to get along with. I, possibly am the most un-materialistic human being. I'm not saying like "oh I'm offended so I'm just going to pretend that Libra's are perfect and it's everyone else's fault." Well, Mr. Libra 1 must have gotten "turned on" by my comment because he Facebook friended me and took the initiative to send me a "Hey" message but must have changed his Libra mind and sent me a second (bizarre) message that was an obvious LIE, claiming he thought he was sending the message to his sister. He's cray cray!! If you've got a libra like that - RUN! As well as the comments below. However, this may cause her to push people away or make people think that she no longer likes them. They will compensate for with food (especially fats, alcohol, and sweets) and urge others to overindulge along with them. For me, it was to my defend my kids and anytime she went past the line of reason in punishing them, I was right there to invoke the one thing Librans are good at, utilizing and that is our rather sharp tongue. 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